Friday, May 6, 2016

The Characteristics Of A Precious Wife or Future Life Partner.

Is there a way to solve or minimize at least the issue of divorce in the United States and other parts of the world today?  This issue was already present even during the Old Testament time up to the present  year 2016.  The fall of men to sin in Genesis chapter 3 started all mess in the life of men that's why that required for a once and for all sacrifice to satisfy the holiness of God that  was violated and that resulted then to his furious wrath that led to death of all men both physical and spiritual, Romans 6:23   This broken relationship of men to God also affected the creation in itself as if it is like a baby who  cries and needs milk to satisfy his craving for food and to stop his crying. This dilemma can only be restored through the sacrificial death of Jesus, the only Son of God, Hebrews 10:1-4.  This mess will continue to happen till the second coming of Jesus but it doesn't mean that we as true bible believing Christians, should become passive only and not to do something to lessen at least the magnitude of this mess in the life of the families who are affected.  The following biblical truths will truly help minimize at least this big and serious issues the world is facing now:

First, Faithfulness in the proclamation of the good news of God's salvation through Jesus Christ.  A person who has no personal relationship with the Lord Jesus can easily been deceived of even minor issues in life that will affect negatively his relationship with his family.  Temptations are everywhere and you can't make to guard your partner everyday.  Relationship is founded on the truth of true love.  There is no fear and doubt in love and trusting  one another is the result of this foundation.  The bible says in John 8:31-32, "If you hold on to my teaching, you are really my disciples.  Then you will know the truth, and the truth will will set you free."  What to expect to a man who is a slave of sin?  For him, all things are justifiable, even it hurts his wife or family.  What is important to him is his own satisfaction and it doesn't matter what's the implications of his decision to others.

Second, Guided list of qualities of a model mother or future life partner.  All mother, young ladies and even men and young men should read regularly the book of Proverbs 31:10-31 and be guided by the down to earth and tested characteristics of a precious mother:  A precious mother or wife is trustworthy or can be trusted, always thinks what's the best for the family, industrious and do her works with love and joy, she is creative and knows how to budget the limited resources of the family, knows and ready how to sacrifice for her family, business minded and thinks also the financial status of her family, she works like a man and smart in decision making, helpful to the needy and does it without expecting anything in return, she has the ability to plan ahead, she's clean and manages the home beautifully, she's a woman of integrity and knows how to protect delicate information, she has a strong personality and can't easily panic when issues in the family come, she's faithful and full of wisdom and common sense. She knows to mind her own business and doesn't eat food out of being idle, her life is a good example before other people and her own family, she knows how to maintain her beauty not only physically but also her heart and mind.  She loves God more than anything else in this life.  She is not a superwoman but this kind of life is attainable of a well disciplined woman.  Husband and children, how would you rate your mother?  Mother, how would you rate yourself?  Young ladies, can you follow the qualities of a  precious mother?  Young men, be careful not just to marry a rich and so beautiful woman and missed the other qualities of a model woman or future life partner.

Lastly, Aim for the best always.  The woman who fears the Lord is the best quality a mother should have and the other qualities or characteristics above will be developed little by little.  Make God be the center of your life, means, love the Lord  your God with all your heart, with all your strength, and with all your soul and everything will follow.  A woman who loves God is to be praised always.

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